Jerseynyc, 38

Looking for you know who I'm just going to jot things down as I think of them, so this will probably be fairly random.

I work in NYC and spend a lot of my time there. I'm a funny guy, though I tend to offend people from time to time. I'm easy to talk to and hang out with. I love sports and I love comedy. Honestly, those are my two biggest passions in life, with music coming in at 1A. I don't know of too many people who hate me though, which I'm guessing is a good thing. Of course if you're pleasing EVERYBODY, you're probably not very interesting.

I work for the approval of very few people and am hesitant to change my life just for one person. If you can be that person that can do that, have at it, but please realize that it's virtually a futile battle. I don't think I'm too terrible how I am now, anyway!

I've done fairly well with women in my life, but I feel like sometimes it takes too long to realize whether you're into each other or not. The meeting, the dates, the hanging out, all to realize a month down the line that you actually don't like this person as much as you thought you did, and you could have been spending your time with someone you may have had a genuine connection with.

I've got a couple, well, primarily ONE psychotic ex who had issues letting me go. I don't know why she loved me THAT much, but I bet you have someone like this in your dating past too!